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misianese submitted:
I’ve basically decided that if any woman feels uncomfortable with an uncircumcised penis, or thinks it looks strange, or refuses to have date/have sex with a guy who is uncircumcised, then in turn, SHE should be okay with it if a guy decides he doesn’t want to date her for her natural appearance and thinks she should get a boob job (or some other form of cosmetic surgery).
If you’re going to dish out that kind of offence to someone’s natural body, be willing to accept it in return.————————————————————
Yep. It goes both ways. If you expect someone to have cosmetic surgery, don’t get upset if they expect the same from you.
I do believe I’m entitled to not find certain things about a man attractive. I think uncircumcised dicks are nasty, therefore I don’t want to be with a guy who isn’t cut. That’s my damn right - if I were to bring home a guy to have sex and I find that his cock is uncircumcised, I have the right to be naturally turned off and to humbly request that he leave, just as a guy would have the right to turn me away because he doesn’t like how my pussy looks. Learn to not be fucking offended by someone’s personal preference or treat it like their rejection is them telling you that you can’t have anyone unless you alter your appearance. If someone doesn’t like something about you, then grab your balls and move the fuck on.
Well of course it’s your right, but that doesn’t make you any less of a shallow jerk.
You always have the right to choose who you sleep with.
Perhaps you should ask yourself why you find natural penises so disgusting, as opposed to when they have been altered?
Forever amazed about how offended people can be over pieces of skin (whether that be on vulvae or penises).
Forever amazed at how stupid people are that they assume I’m offended by “pieces of skin” and not the fact that the foreskin community is supporting this idea that woman shouldn’t be allowed to turn away a guy just because of said foreskin. So, are you telling me, like apparently everyone else in your community, you don’t have a turn off of any kind, right? If you did, why? Ignoring the fact that a woman doesn’t have to justify shit to a man or society as to why she doesn’t want to have sex with someone, why does one have turn-offs? Are you into being shat on during sex? Pissed on? A guy with massive body hair? No? Who the fuck are you to turn away a guy for those reasons?
I don’t like foreskin just like I don’t like eyelids, especially when someone is playing with them, protruding veins on people’s feet and hands, skin being pulled, broken capillaries in eyeballs, and a large amount of missing teeth. There’s not a fucking reason for it, you idiot; it just is. I don’t like the look, the physical feel, and the mental feel, therefore I’m not attracted to it.
I’m not sexually attracted to black or old men, either. I guess you’re going to tell me that I’m racist and ageist for not willing to spread my legs for any and everyone, right? Why don’t you go ahead and tell me that I’m homophobic too because I’m not attracted to women either, and I should “give a try first before I make judgments”?
As I said before, this community of yours is seriously insane and oppressive to anyone who just doesn’t feel attraction for foreskin. Apparently to be in your damn group you have to support the illegalization of infant circumcision AND you have to be willing to have sex with men who have foreskin.
You people are a fucking joke.
Literally, the first thing I said was, You always have the right to choose who you sleep with.
My point was, that perhaps you should think about the reason you find something natural so disgusting. Just as I ask the same of people who say body hair (generally referring to when it’s on female bodied people) is disgusting. Cultural norms effect the way we think and feel greatly, and I was simply asking you to be aware of that. Perhaps I should have gone into more depth though, but I don’t know, you sure assume to know a lot about me from those few sentences.
I don’t care about your preferences. Many people have preferences. I have preferences about my own body. But if you would not be with someone /solely/ because they have a foreskin, you don’t think that’s a bit odd? Of all the things that could attract someone to another person, THAT is a deal breaker?
No, you do not have to justify why you don’t want to sleep with a specific person (or people: old and/or black people are on your not to fuck list too apparently). The point is you are actually spreading unhealthy standards by saying that a piece of skin that is perfectly fucking natural, is disgusting. Think about why you are ‘naturally turned off’ by something that is natural.Cultural norms.
In before piss and shit is natural, why don’t you like them. We are referring to a part of someone’s body, not bodily fluids/waste.
I’m not being sexist or misogynistic. I am just as offended when people say they wouldn’t fuck someone with long labia, because they find it ‘disgusting’ or whatever, insert ten thousand slang words for labia that I heard in high school here.
Open your mind. (No, not to sleeping with certain people, I don’t care who you fuck, but open your mind as to WHY you are so strongly opposed to something that is natural.)
When my hair was bleach blonde.
Perfect eyes! And most everything else really. ^__^
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Personal shit.
I think I’ll always have anxiety. The thing that has decreased a great deal, however, is social anxiety. A couple of years ago I had some shit happen to me with people I thought I was friends with, and after I realised how low people can be - to pretend to have your back for so long, to then walk the fuck all over you for the apparent fun of it, I hit this spectacular point of not giving a fuck. If this is what human beings are, I don’t give a shit what they think of me. Let them think I’m weird, annoying, unfunny, dumb, a fucking bimbo because I have blonde hair and wear a lot of make up (when I actually bother to put it on), a bitch - because having opinions that differ to that of others makes you a total asshole, yep.
From that point, it’s just gotten better and better. About 8 or so months ago I started to get really comfortable on the PA at work. I used to get jolts of panic and adrenalin simply calling someone to the front checkouts. It would make me stutter and just be a general dweeb. But now I can actually read out the spiels for deal of the day advertisements every 30 minutes or so. Usually without stuffing it up, but when I do, it doesn’t matter.
The manager that’s always fucking telling me to smile recently (the only times she’s said it though have when I’ve been in the tea room or in the reserves. I save my smiles for teh customers) made a comment the other day. I made a joke to a coworker, and this manager noted that it sounded really funny coming from me, who used to be so far in her shell. and it’s true. Dear everyone, your teenage years will most probably always fucking suck for absolutely everyone. But you may not realise it at the time, so enjoy it to the best of your abilities - at least the times when you’re not bawling your eyes out over some school, social, or personal stress , and throwing your textbooks at your cell bedroom walls. and when you look back and realise how many assholes you surrounded yourself with, learn.from.it.
I still care about what my loved ones think of me - but there’s only so much I can do. I’m not going to spend all my time and energy into being someone I’m uncomfortable with. Basically, if you don’t want me that’s cool you should GO YOUR OWN WAAAAAAAAAAAY and I’ll continue to be the dweeb that I am, because apparently some weirdos actually like that. (and I quite like those weirdos, I mean weirdos in the nicest sense, I promise).
tl;dr I’m not here to impress you and if you think I’m a loser that’s cool bubs, it’s a non issue.
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Yesterday I was pleasantly surprised to see that one of my favourite Tumblr bloggers supports the rights of sex workers. This isn’t something I see too much around here, so if you are a current or former sex worker, or if you are an ally that blogs about the issues and politics surrounding sex work, please reblog so that I can find you. :)
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So, I noticed this picture on my Facebook:
And, firstly, I hate inspiration porn. A lot. It’s always some random picture, usually of a child, with a disability doing something simple like playing or running, etc. And see, it’s inspiring cuz look at those poor poor…
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“So congratulations, North Carolina. Last night, you struck a decisive blow for loneliness. And tonight, as you go to sleep beside your heterosexual life mate, you can rest assured that all across your great state, a gay man or lesbian woman is crying themselves to sleep in solitude and making your relationship stronger with each tear.” — STEPHEN COLBERT, The Colbert Report (via inothernews)
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misianese submitted:
I’ve basically decided that if any woman feels uncomfortable with an uncircumcised penis, or thinks it looks strange, or refuses to have date/have sex with a guy who is uncircumcised, then in turn, SHE should be okay with it if a guy decides he doesn’t want to date her for her natural appearance and thinks she should get a boob job (or some other form of cosmetic surgery).
If you’re going to dish out that kind of offence to someone’s natural body, be willing to accept it in return.————————————————————
Yep. It goes both ways. If you expect someone to have cosmetic surgery, don’t get upset if they expect the same from you.
I do believe I’m entitled to not find certain things about a man attractive. I think uncircumcised dicks are nasty, therefore I don’t want to be with a guy who isn’t cut. That’s my damn right - if I were to bring home a guy to have sex and I find that his cock is uncircumcised, I have the right to be naturally turned off and to humbly request that he leave, just as a guy would have the right to turn me away because he doesn’t like how my pussy looks. Learn to not be fucking offended by someone’s personal preference or treat it like their rejection is them telling you that you can’t have anyone unless you alter your appearance. If someone doesn’t like something about you, then grab your balls and move the fuck on.
Well of course it’s your right, but that doesn’t make you any less of a shallow jerk.
You always have the right to choose who you sleep with.
Perhaps you should ask yourself why you find natural penises so disgusting, as opposed to when they have been altered?
Forever amazed about how offended people can be over pieces of skin (whether that be on vulvae or penises).
