December 2011
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Welp, tomorrow morning I’m off to get hot sticky stuff lathered all over my legs and bikini line, then ripped off pulling all my hair with it. Which is painful but I like it.
and then it’s grocery shopping with Ellen, Shae and Cameron and then we’re straight off to the Barossa Hotel for two nights! :D What’s up pool time.
I doubt I’ll take my laptop… should I?...
lavender-labia replied to your post: Someone needs to make chicktips go away. Do any…
i’m laughing hysterically at the thought of trying to smile with a dick in your mouth. that’s brilliant.
It is hilarious. I wouldn’t recommend anyone try it, however. You might end up laughing and accidentally biting down which makes no one a happy camper. I checked the notes for that image too and...
NEW YEARS RESOLUTION 2012
adolescents:
wrmiii:
Be even more of a babe than I already am.
Yo, I’m with you on this.
Cameron bought me a laundry hamper. It’s been half an hour and he’s not even half way done assembling it. and now he caught me writing this hahahhaha
hyuk hyuk
EDIT: and my dad just walked out and paid him out for how much he’s failing bwehehe
I could help, but I won’t.
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Pet peeve: I can’t read Ashlee Adams’ blog with out my boyfriend sitting behind me going “Can you enlarge that picture” every two seconds uh hurr hurr huur no I’m reading dammit.
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Someone needs to make chicktips go away.
Do any girls actually follow this? Do you enjoy being endlessly patronised?
“Ladies, smiling suppresses the gag reflex” I’d like to see someone try and smile when they have a penis in their mouth. How about, just do what you enjoy and are comfortable with, if your partner does not respect your boundaries, find a different one.
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I rang up for a waxing appointment because yey, new years! and the woman on the phone was like “Oh I see you were with Bel last time, I’ll put you in with her again.”
Great, so now I always have to go to the hot waxer? She makes me nervous.
I find religious head wear to be such a hard topic to talk about with my family, even at work and once at a feminist collective meeting.
The general consensus seems to be “Whee fine the fuck out of them! Then they will stop wearing them and be empowered wheeee!” and well, with out the use of ‘whee’ this is almost exactly what I hear from everyone on this topic. My family...
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One more thing on trigger warnings:
If you don’t understand why a trigger warning is added to a topic, then it’s not there for you so move right along.
I will add that sometimes call outs are necessary, in the case that someone is trivialising trigger warnings or using them incorrectly.
Planned Parenthood Opens $8 Billion Abortionplex →
prolongedeyecontact:
TOPEKA, KS—Planned Parenthood announced Tuesday the grand opening of its long-planned $8 billion Abortionplex, a sprawling abortion facility that will allow the organization to terminate unborn lives with an efficiency never before thought possible.
During a press conference, Planned Parenthood president Cecile Richards told reporters that the new state-of-the-art...
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Travel plans
It’s decided that Cameron and I are going to Coffin Bay. It’s on the coast and they have heaps of activities and rentals and whatnot. We want to go kayaking, but the problem is Cameron’s car has roofracks, but isn’t reliable for that distance. We could take my mum’s car with a trailer because it’s 6cyl, I guess. I don’t know how much trailer hire is. We...
[TW: vivid description of rape, victim-blaming] →
lavender-labia:
This is such a powerful piece of writing. And the saddest thing is so many people will relate to this…far too many people.
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TW assault, PTSD talk
gatic answered your question: Trigger warnings
If someone can’t look at bad words without having a fit, they need to change to accomodate society, not society change to accomodate them.
I won’t go in depth with this because it’s clear you either have very little understanding of what it is to have PTSD, and what trigger warnings are, or you just have no respect. If it’s the...
I am Iron Cat.: themetallian replied to your post:... →
themetallian:
dresdenlowe:
themetallian replied to your post: nekomarie replied to your post: > Can’t move into…
it’s awesome having multiple cat owners in the one house :) then if you forget to buy cat food someone else has some! not to mention there are LOTS OF CATS IN YOUR HOUSE ^.^
Yes haha! and my cat has…
um all the freaking time! there are four trays in our house, we are sure she...
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Trigger warnings
Particularly for the topics of rape/assault/violence. I just scrolled through my dash and saw about four different posts making fun of trigger warnings. Are you people serious? Do you understand what a trigger warning is?
Or are you really that cold hearted that you won’t put a trigger warning on something traumatic, because you don’t give a shit that it might trigger someone’s...
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themetallian replied to your post: nekomarie replied to your post: > Can’t move into…
it’s awesome having multiple cat owners in the one house :) then if you forget to buy cat food someone else has some! not to mention there are LOTS OF CATS IN YOUR HOUSE ^.^
Yes haha! and my cat has never drank out of her own water bowl, it’s either the dog’s huge bucket or out of a tea...
MuchMusic is bleeping out the word "gay" from a...
omelettesandorgasms:
What the fuck? Since when is “gay” a swear word?
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IUD's..... →
Okay, my first problem here:
Our protocol stated that IUDs could be inserted on pregnant women in order to cause an abortion. Yes. You read that right. If a woman came in and was early pregnant, we would insert an IUD to cause an abortion. She would have only been a few days pregnant. A pregnancy test would not have shown up positive. We didn’t have a confirmation of pregnancy. Out...
lavender-labia:
I seriously just saw someone who prefaced a post with a trigger warning for “christmas / presents”. Seriously.
If I WERE transethnic,
fsufeminist:
I’d be white-presenting, but identify as 1/4 black, 1/4 Cherokee, 1/8 Jewish, 1/8 Syrian, 1/8 Chinese, and 1/8 Brazilian, just to cover my bases in case anyone accuses me of racism.
Oh gosh, I’ve found a loophole for my privilege! mwahahahaha
Lavender-Labia: Real apologies are hard: →
notforyoutobreak:
Real apologies are no-nonsense, non-excusing, straight-forward, honest and truthful admissions of what you did wrong. That means being honest and truthful to the person you hurt AND to yourself at the same time.
Real apologies are NOT used to get people to respond to you the way you want them to. If you’re so focused on that and so focused on getting them to forgive you, then...
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Just want to say sorry for my post earlier today in which I talked about my insecurity issues now and in high school. I didn’t even think about how it would affect the people I’m still friends with and went to high school with (derp, seems pretty obvious now!). Just want you to know that if I am still friends with you, you aren’t someone who hurt me, especially not in the way I...
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nekomarie replied to your post: > Can’t move into boyfriend’s house mostly because…
i might look to move out, i have a kitty too :)
I think I am leaning more towards finding other cat lovers/owners as it does make it harder to actually find somewhere that allows pets! My cat is super shy at first but I’m sure she’d love having a friend that isn’t a huge and...
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> Can’t move into boyfriend’s house mostly because of douchebag step dad who thinks all women are succubus/harlots. Secondly because his mother is allergic to cats and their house is pretty swanky and I wouldn’t want Dresden destroying anything.
> Can’t move out with a couple I’m friends with, it would be freaking perfect except for the small fact that one is...
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Personal rant, don't mind me.
I feel like I’m being a brat. Crossing my arms and stamping my feet, but I’m hurt and offended and the people I’m angry at are completely inept are discussing feelings. Whenever I’ve told my parents that I’m upset, and try to discuss it with them, they disregard what I’m saying and tell me I’m either being rude, over reacting, pulling shit out of no where,...
thanatesque:
my bf has been playing Skyrim for the past 4 hours
and I’m lying in bed with the laptop immersed in tumblr
we’re the perfect couple
My partner and I do this a lot. He’s still sleeping at the moment though, it’s 11am.
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thebittersea asked: so that thing about how women relate to their vulvas was really cool. but then i went to one of the other pages on that site and it had some really weird things about being an "appropriate weight" it was actually really yucky and not body positive and made me sad because the other article was so awesome.